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With the number of second weddings on the rise, many new traditions are being born. Many couples are opting for the new, the relaxed, and the non-traditional. Some choose to serve pie instead of cake, and others are saying "I do" barefoot on the beach.
Whether you're a divorcee, a widow, or simply renewing your vows, a second wedding is considered by many couples to be a "new beginning" rather than a second wedding, and people are getting creative with their ceremonies and receptions. If you will be blending families, find new and creative ways to make every family member feel they are an important part of your celebration.
Here are a few simple second wedding etiquette rules to remember when planning your fresh start:
- Be sure to tell your children first, before anyone else.
- Don't try to duplicate your first wedding - it will make people uncomfortable.
- Don't marry in the same location, wear the same dress, or use rings from a former marriage.
- It's not necessary for the bride to be walked down the aisle.
- Attendants and rehearsal dinners are also not necessary.
- Do register for gifts, even if you don't need or want anything. Read more about alternative gift registries.
- Include your children in the ceremony. Ask them how they would like to be involved in the activities. ...read more
- Adjust wedding vows accordingly to accommodate the fact that it's a second wedding. Much of the traditional vow wording is not applicalbe, and it's a great opportunity to write your own wedding vows.
- Wear whatever color you want. This is your wedding, so use it as an opportunity to show off your impeccable taste and fashionable sense of style. ...read more
- If you're blending families, consider taking a familymoon instead of a honeymoon. It could be the perfect opportunity to bond as a new family and will create lasting memories for all family members.
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Hartwell House Inn ~ Ogunquit, ME
Ideal for romantic excursions and corporate functions. This elegant, antique-filled Inn is one block from Perkins Cove. |
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Basin Harbor Club ~ Vergennes, VT
Along the scenic banks of Lake Champlain, imagine your wedding ceremonies accentuated perfectly by the landscape of the lakeside setting and gorgeous gardens. |
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The Notchland Inn ~ Hart's Location, NH
Find everything you need for an elegant second wedding with our 4-night package. |
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Planning a Wedding | First Steps | Staying Organized | Planning Options
Setting a Date | Large vs. Small Wedding | Involving the Family
Writing Announcements | Creating Your Guest List | Second Weddings
Second Wedding Attire | State Marriage Laws | Prenuptials
Legal Representation | The Wedding Budget | Planning Timelines
Printable Planners | The Wedding Book
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