A second wedding will usually include more than just the uniting of two. Many couples marrying for the second time decide to keep their wedding small and intimate; especially if there are hard feelings between the families at all, especially when involving kids. Children are often involved in the ceremonies. This gives them a better understanding of what their new family is all about, and that you haven’t forgotten them at all in your new relationship. New symbolic elements are commonly added such as family medallions or rings, and unity candles with multiple tapers. If you or your spouse do have kids from a previous marriage, you may want to change or add to certain vows or traditions as well. Such as a vow from the children’s new step parent that he/she will be there for them also. Older boys sometimes walk their Mother down the isle, or sons and daughters over the age of 12 will be bridesmaids or groomsmen Dress and Attire Second Weddings Wedding Planning Index