photo by Don Landwehrle 
courtesy of Riverside Farm Weddings

Plan your wedding by first planning your budget.  Know who is paying for what and have a specific plan.  As your big day gets closer, you do not want to have to worry about how your are going to pay for all of your expenses. Stay out  of debt and stay with your budget when planning your wedding.   Get written, not verbal agreements with vendors and service providers.  Insist that everyone put their agreement in writing and keep a copy in a safe place.  Delegate as much as possible so that you are not burnt-out on your big day.  Staying flexible is your best defense against unwanted stress and disappointment. Stay open minded, others will have ideas they want to contribute, and these could be special idiosyncrasies that will make your day more unique and memorable.   Show your appreciation to all who help organize and expedite your big day.  Each and every one of them feel they have made a significant contribution and want to be assured that you are pleased.  Leave the day before your wedding to pamper yourself with a manicure, lunch with friends, a tanning session, some quiet time.  Get to bed early so you are well rested and refreshed in the morning.   Expect a few bloopers and you will be pleased when all goes swimmingly.  Hints & Tips Index